Arlene’s story: knitting quality time into everyday life

Arlene cares for her husband, who lives with several health conditions and disabilities that require support when leaving the house. Together they live in a beautiful rural setting, where they spend much of their time enjoying their garden. For both, this outdoor space provides a place of comfort, relaxation and connection with nature.

When discussing opportunities to take a break from her caring role, Arlene explained that she was not interested in going away on holiday. She shared that she is happiest at home, surrounded by the familiar environment she loves and the garden that brings her so much enjoyment.

During conversations about hobbies and wellbeing, Arlene spoke about her passion for knitting. Knitting gives her valuable time to relax and unwind while her husband is resting, and she takes great pride in creating handmade items for her local hospital's baby unit. For Arlene, knitting is more than a hobby; it is a source of comfort, purpose and wellbeing.

With encouragement from her local carers' centre, Arlene applied for a Time to Live microgrant. She used the funding to purchase a good supply of quality wool, a new set of knitting needles, pattern books and a storage basket to keep all her materials organised.

"The grant I received was so helpful for me. I was able to make sure I could continue taking breaks for months to come because I had plenty of wool and all the accessories I needed. This grant meant so much because it allowed me time to myself at home, where I am happiest. Thank you so much for this funding."

For many unpaid carers, caring responsibilities can be around the clock. Taking a break does not always mean going away. For some carers, the opportunity to relax at home, alongside the person they care for and in an environment where they feel safe and comfortable, can be just as important and beneficial.

The flexibility of the Time to Live microgrant enabled Arlene to choose a form of respite that was meaningful to her and suited her individual circumstances. Through a simple basket filled with wool, needles and patterns, Arlene has gained something far more valuable; ongoing opportunities to take meaningful breaks, nurture her wellbeing and continue an activity that brings both herself and others comfort and joy.

Find out more about Time to Live here.

Arlene said

"The flexible nature of the funding, and the fact that the carers' centre listened to what I needed, made a huge difference. I felt listened to, heard and appreciated."