Douglas' story: a tank full of tranquility

Douglas' story: a tank full of tranquility

Douglas is a carer for his wife, who suffered a brain injury following a haemorrhage. Caring can be challenging, and they prefer to stay close to home where they feel most comfortable and supported.

During a conversation with a support worker at their local carers' centre, Douglas was encouraged to think about ways he could take a break from caring that felt realistic and achievable. Rather than something that would take him away from home, Douglas reflected on hobbies he had enjoyed in the past and spoke about his interest in tropical fish. He explained that having an aquarium and a small collection of fish could provide something positive to focus on, creating a relaxing environment for both him and his wife. The gentle movement of the fish and the calming nature of the aquarium appealed to them both.

Through a Time to Live microgrant, Douglas was able to purchase a small aquarium, a starter kit and a selection of tropical fish. The grant provided him with a hobby that sits comfortably alongside his caring responsibilities, giving him regular opportunities to relax without needing to leave home.

"With this grant, I was able to set up a lovely, relaxing area for me and also my wife, who loves to watch the fish - especially the angelfish and the neon tetras. They are very calming, and the sound of the water pump in the tank makes for a nice relaxing atmosphere too."

The aquarium has become much more than a hobby. It has created a peaceful focal point within the home, giving Douglas valuable time to unwind while continuing to care for his wife. It has also provided opportunities for them to reconnect, share moments together and enjoy a simple pleasure that brightens their day.

The microgrant has helped Douglas find a meaningful way to balance caring with looking after his own wellbeing, demonstrating how a small grant can make a significant difference to everyday life.

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