Ellen's story: tailoring time for herself

Ellen's story: tailoring time to herself

Ellen is from the Travelling community and has significant caring responsibilities within her family. She is the primary carer for her 12-year-old son, who has been diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Alongside this, she supports her elderly father, who experiences mobility difficulties and requires regular assistance. Recently, Ellen also experienced the loss of her mother following a terminal illness, making the past year particularly challenging both emotionally and practically.

Family and caring are central to Ellen's life, and she dedicates much of her time and energy to ensuring her loved ones are supported. However, the demands of caring can often leave little opportunity for her to focus on her own wellbeing.

One activity that brings Ellen peace, enjoyment and a sense of achievement is sewing. She enjoys making clothing for herself and her family, as well as creating items for her home. Sewing allows her to express her creativity, learn new skills, and maintain her identity beyond her caring role.

Through a Time to Live microgrant, Ellen was able to purchase an adjustable tailor's dummy, dressmaking fabrics, sewing patterns and essential haberdashery supplies. These items have enabled her to develop her garment-making skills, take on more ambitious sewing projects and create handmade clothing for both her and her family.

"Being a carer can be exhausting, especially after losing my mum. Sewing gives me something positive to focus on and having the right equipment has given me the confidence to try more challenging projects."

There have also been practical benefits. By making and altering clothes herself, Ellen has been able to reduce household clothing costs, making family finances stretch further. The skills and resources gained through the grant will continue to benefit her and her family long after the funding has been spent.

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