Freddie’s story: finding freedom through football
Freddie is 11-years-old and provides daily care to his family. His dad has diabetes, mobility issues and uses a wheelchair, meanwhile his older sister, Amy has Down Syndrome. Although Freddie's mum does everything she can to support the family, she works part-time which means Freddie often takes on a significant caring role at home.
Alongside helping his dad and sister, Freddie also manages school and tries to find time to enjoy being a child. Like many young carers, he often puts the needs of others before his own.
When attending a local young carers' group, Freddie spoke to a support worker about his passion for football. A local football club ran training sessions and matches every Saturday morning, and Freddie would love to join alongside one of his friends. However, he knew money was tight at home, and he didn't want to add any extra pressure to his parents by asking for football boots or a team strip.
Recognising how important the opportunity would be for Freddie, the support worker helped him apply to the Time to Live fund for support. Freddie was delighted when his application was successful. The grant helped him purchase football boots, a football strip and everything he needed to become part of the team.
"It was brilliant getting the football boots. They're red and black, and I got a football strip with socks too, so I was part of the team - just like my friend. It's been brilliant going to the sessions. I look forward to the games all week."
Being able to play football has given Freddie something that is just for him. It provides a chance to take a break from his caring responsibilities, spend time with friends and build his confidence, all while doing something he loves.
Whenever they can, Freddie's mum and sister come along to watch him train and play. While football gives Freddie an opportunity to enjoy time away from his caring role, it also creates valuable opportunities for the family to spend time together.
Thanks to the support of the Time to Live fund, Freddie has been able to enjoy new opportunities, develop his skills and simply have fun by being part of a football team. Most importantly, he has gained confidence, made new friends and discovered a space where he can focus on himself while continuing to be the caring and supportive young person his family relies on every day.
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Freddie said
"When mum and Amy are there watching, I love to score. They get excited and it makes me feel happy. I really enjoy the training sessions and if I keep working hard, who knows? I might be the next Ronaldo!"