Kavon’s story: a ukulele journey

Kavon’s story: a ukulele journey

Kavon is 17-years-old and helps care for his mum who had a stroke. His caring role involves providing daily emotional and practical support, including helping with medication, assisting with equipment, and supporting with mobility. He also checks in on his elderly grandparents several times a week. While he is proud to help his family, the responsibilities have often left him feeling overwhelmed, and with very little time for himself or his friends.

“It has been difficult since Mum fell ill. Dad helps where he can, but he is working, so I am around more. I’ll be leaving school soon, and I know my responsibilities will probably increase. I worry that my personal time will become even less.”

After attending a young carers' support group, Kavon had the opportunity to speak with a Carer Support Worker about his worries and future. Although he felt generally happy at home, he was increasingly concerned about the decisions he would need to make around college and what the future might look like for both himself and his family. The thought of taking the next steps in his own life while continuing to support his mum was weighing heavily on him.

During conversations about his interests, Kavon shared that one of his friends had recently started learning the ukulele and was really enjoying it. Kavon was keen to have a go himself, but knew that the cost of an instrument and lessons would be difficult to manage.

Through a Time to Live microgrant, Kavon was able to purchase his own ukulele and secure a block of group lessons. This meant he could learn alongside his friend, giving him something positive to look forward to each week.

“It’s been brilliant. I’m halfway through the lessons and I’m really loving learning. It’s been great having that time out with my friend. We also got a book so we can practice at home, and because I have my own ukulele, I can keep learning between lessons. It’s something I can do to relax at home too.”

Prior to receiving the grant, Kavon had been feeling increasingly isolated and worried. He felt his mental wellbeing was beginning to suffer as he struggled to balance his caring responsibilities with his own needs. The microgrant provided regular opportunities for him to take a break, focus on himself, and enjoy an activity separate from his caring role.

Learning the ukulele has given Kavon an outlet for stress, a new skill to develop, and valuable time to spend with a close friend. Just as importantly, it has created opportunities for relaxation at home, helping him find a healthier balance between caring and personal time.

Find out more about Time to Live here.