Michael’s story: casting for calm

Michael’s story: casting for calm

Michael is a young carer who supports his mum, Alexis who lives with severe and enduring mental health difficulties. He also helps care for his younger siblings. Michael lives at home with his parents and four brothers, two of whom have behavioural difficulties, placing significant responsibility on him.

Michael has been coping with a great deal. Recently, his dad changed jobs which meant he had to help more at home, and he began to feel increasingly isolated and lonely, despite living in a crowded household. He also had little personal space, adding further pressure.

A friend of the family kindly offered them the use of his fishing hut for a weekend and Michael's Young Carer Support Worker encouraged him to apply for a Time to Live microgrant. As both Michael and his dad share a love of fishing, they were eager to accept the opportunity. Grandparents stepped in to stay in the family home to provide support, allowing Michael and his father to take a short break together.

Michael did not have suitable clothing or equipment for fishing, so the grant helped him to purchase waterproofs, fishing tackle, a new fishing rod and contribute towards some travel costs.

"Having the correct equipment has helped me to continue fishing regularly on the local river. This has significantly improved my wellbeing, reduced my feelings of isolation, and helped me build positive connections with local fishermen, who I can talk to, and they offer ongoing support, advice, and encouragement. This makes me so happy."

The fishing trip had an enormously positive impact on both Michael and his father. For the first time in a long while, they were able to relax, unwind, and enjoy quality time together away from the pressures of home life.

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