Teri’s story: a journey of remembrance and renewal

Teri’s story: a journey of remembrance and renewal

Teri cared for their partner for many years who had dementia. As the condition progressed, the level of care and support required increased, bringing emotional and practical challenges. During this time, the local carers' centre became an important source of guidance, connection, and reassurance, supporting Teri throughout the caring journey.

Following the loss of their partner, Teri experienced deep grief. Despite this devastating bereavement, she continued to access support through the centre, regularly attending groups. Within these spaces, Teri found comfort, understanding, and a sense of security in staying connected with others.

During one of these sessions, Teri learned she was still eligible to apply for a Time to Live microgrant, even after the bereavement. Surprised but delighted to discover that this opportunity remained open to her, she welcomed the chance to access further support.

With the help of the grant, Teri arranged a short break in rural Scotland with a family member, in a place deeply meaningful to them.

“I used the microgrant to enjoy a break with a family member. This place was special as we often visited, and it holds many happy memories.” 

Returning there brought both reflection and comfort.

“I remembered so many moments and was able to reflect while also creating new memories myself. The break gave me the time and space to reminisce, relax, and think about my partner while building new experiences. It made such a difference to me and to my wellbeing.”

The experience offered Teri more than just time away; it helped her begin to look forward again.

“The break has helped me regain some lost confidence, and I have a more positive outlook on the future.”

Through continued connection and the opportunity to take meaningful time for herself, Teri has been supported not only in remembering the past, but in gently rebuilding for the future.

Find out more about Time to Live here.